Petitions

OPINION: I must get 5 bazillion petitions to sign in my email every day. (MAYBE they just want my signature but are too shy to ask?) Today’s petition contained the following verbiage:

Young black and brown girls have long been the victims of discriminatory rules and punitive practices that push them out of the classroom and into the crosshairs of the criminal injustice system. Black girls are seven times more likely to be suspended than white girls. Black girls are also four times more likely to be arrested at school.

Schools police black girls’ bodies, hair, and ability to express themselves. Worst of all, school resource officers often use excessive force when engaging with black girls over simple infractions.”

There have been numerous stories about how young girls of color have be punitively punished for natural hairstyles, (might as well punish someone for the appearance of their face–it makes as much sense.) girls who have been slammed to the ground over seemingly nothing, and girls of color who are given consequences for indiscretions that are much harsher than those given to their Caucasian counterparts who commit the same infractions. This has to stop.

In 2006 the FBI issued a report warning of infiltration into our law enforcement agencies of white supremacists. ( https://www.pbs.org/newshour/nation/fbi-white-supremacists-in-law-enforcement ) They also teach in our schools, work in public offices, and are sometimes administrators in school systems. This is why parents who are NOT of color need to pay attention to what’s happening in our children’s schools.

I often wear a sweatshirt that reads, “It takes white people to change white people. Be the change.” To me, that means it is our responsibility to call out bad behaviors and discriminatory discipline in our educational institutions. WE MUST be the ones in great numbers who are calling the school and demanding better treatment of our girls of color when we know of discriminatory actions. To ignore these occurrences is to give tacit permission to continue.

Recently, there was a young girl of color who was not allowed to have her school picture taken because of her hairstyle. HER HAIRSTYLE? That hairstyle was adorable. SHE is adorable and SHE’S EIGHT!

I’m retired now, but when I was teaching White girls had all different kinds of color streaks in their hair or their head of hair was an unconventional color and the same is true now. Crickets on that from school photographers and administrators.

What I would have hoped would have happened in this little girl’s defense is that all parents, regardless of skin tone, would have called that school and raised the roof. Sending this little angel the message that something was so egregiously wrong with HER that she couldn’t get a simple school picture taken, is beyond the pale. In fact, people who didn’t have kids in the school should have called. I called. I hope I wasn’t the only one.

Published by Linda

One of my greatest concerns as a teacher was (and still is) bullying. I've never believed punishing the bullies was a helpful practice. When children are bullied we adults need to care for the bullied child and the child who bullied. We do that by teaching with compassion and caring with an eye to strengthen the bullied and positively remediate the bully. In my experience, this practice has often created friendships and more respect for others and self. I'm a retired teacher and I've taught (elementary) Special Education, Reading Title 1, (middle school) Computer Science, Language Arts, Literature, and Math. My Degrees: B.S. Elementary Education 1-8; Special Education K-12 M.A. Reading Specialization K-12 M. S. Human Development and Family Studies (Positive Youth Development) I am a mother of 2 thriving adults (ages 29 and 32) both of whom are engaged to be married to the most wonderful partners.

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