With the holiday season being upon us, our focus turns to the latest and greatest toys (which are often electronic) in the store. There is nothing wrong with electronic toys here and there but the toys of quality are books and those that require imaginative play. My kids won’t even be married until summer of 2020 and I’m already collecting toys for grandkids (with my fingers crossed). I’m collecting Legos, K’nex, wooden trains and train tracks, marble works, blocks, etc. Why? Because these kinds of toys engage a child’s brain and teach him/her problem solving skills while the children are actively engaged in their activity instead of their being passive observers. When they build/explore/share they develop language skills, social skills, understanding of physics concepts, problem solving, planning, seeing a work of theirs to completion, a concept of permanency, and so much more.
When our kids were young, they received far too many toys from relatives and friends that were fascinating for 10 minutes and never touched again. There were too many and there was little variation in play. The batteries polluted our Earth and the plastic will last forever. (I donated all working toys.) The toys they always came back to were the most simple. We’d play games like build the tallest building, make the longest train track, and more. Counting, organizing, categorizing and other skills played an important role in our “games”. Play is the best teacher for children (and adults). Play never grew old for us because the variation in their use was infinite. No play session was ever the same allowing different skills to be explored each time. When the play becomes a family affair, memories that will never be forgotten are created and the bonding is strong.
The other fantastic quality of imaginative toys are the inclusion benefits. No particular skills are required and children of all ages can play at the same time. Children with all kinds of different abilities can play and be included and all children involved can benefit from interacting with a variety of children with a variety of abilities.
Quality toys can be pricey which is why I usually bought ours at garage sales. Today, there are numerous on-line sites where toys can be purchased inexpensively. I just recently bought a HUGE tub of Legos for $25. for instance. Thrift stores can also offer great deals. Sometimes, parents form a sharing cooperative with friends where toys move from family to family every so many weeks or months. (determined by the group) Toys don’t have to be expensive to be good.
There is more information about the benefits of simple and fewer toys in this article: https://returntonow.net/2019/04/02/study-having-fewer-simpler-toys-makes-children-more-imaginative-and-intelligent/
What are the toys your children (or children of others you know) play with the most? What do you notice about their play when it comes to cooperation, talking, problem-solving, planning, etc? I’d love to hear your stories.